14 Sex Tips We Learned From Karrine Steffans

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Karrine Steffans is what some like to call an attention whore *no pun intended*. But, that same attention whore, who formerly goes by the name “Superhead,” has plenty of experience in the sexual department. Her debut memoir “Diary Of A Video Vixen” reigns as a New York Times Bestseller and trumps every tell-all book created in its lane. The detailed pages of her vixen series are flooded with advice, from pleasuring your man to living a more fulfilled life. Karrine turned her vibrant sexual appetite into a career thus leading us to what we came here for…

Check out these few (but helpful) tips from the oral sex goddess herself!

The Golden Rule: Treat Him How You’d Want To Be Treated

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“I feel like women always expect men to do so much for them, like buying flowers and fixing your bath; men like the same kinds of things. It’s important to show appreciation for that other person, and there are tiny things you can do that are so small and cost you nothing, but show that you care and were thinking about them. I’ll hide little sticky notes in certain places, like under the toilet seat, so when he lifts it up, there’s a note like, “Hey, I love you—put the seat down when you’re done!” It’s things like that that make someone fall in love with you over and over again.”

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Be Open Minded

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“I think men find it very attractive when you don’t say, “Well, I wouldn’t do that!” That’s such a turnoff. Your man wants to know that there’s nothing you wouldn’t do for him—if that’s your committed relationship. If it’s just some random person then don’t do anything with him! But if it’s like your guy-guy, he doesn’t want to feel like he disgusts you. This man has ideas of things he wants to do, and he wants to know that he can come home and express them and not get shunned, because then you have a man that’s going to strip clubs and going to other women for stuff. Women are upset because he’s going elsewhere, but you shut him down. You’ve got to be more open!”

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Listen To Your Man

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“Every man is different. You can’t generalize with men, you have to find out what your man wants. You have to listen to him when he’s telling you what he wants, because a lot of times they’re telling you, but you’re not listening. Whether it’s sexually, whether it’s in the relationship, you’ve got to ask. All they want you to do is to try.”

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Starring in your own porno is the ultimate way to become the object of your man’s visual physical desire. –SatisFaction: Erotic Fantasies for the Advanced & Adventurous Couple

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There is nothing sexier than a confident woman, however, our bodies are just as important as our emotional state of being. There is no one piece of the “sexy puzzle” that is more important than the other. All pieces work together for the benefit of the whole. I do not believe in letting any part of yourself or self-esteem go. Not one part.

There is nothing to “do” to make yourself confident. Confidence isn’t something you just get. You either are or you aren’t. An insecure woman, either sexually or otherwise, is the most unattractive! If a woman can’t find what makes her feel good about herself, her body or what she does with it, no one can help her. You either tap into your inner vixen or tap out of your relationship. -As told to MochaManual

Seduce Him

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1. Sit him on the sofa and make full contact with his body.

2. Straddle him face to face.

3. Begin by nibbling on his ear and neck.

4. Whisper in his ear. Tell him how much you love him and missed him while he was away, or how turned on you are just by the sight of him.

5. Place his face between your breasts and manipulate your nipples in, out, and around his lips.

6. Continuously gyrate, slowly, and gently grinding your body against his.

7. Slowly and carefully switch positions, sitting on him with his back to you.

8. Place your feet on the floor between his legs.

9. Slowly stand while simultaneously pulling off your bottoms.

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